In this video, it's about a doctor, specialized in critical care from Suffolk Country, New York, and is a person who has helped a lot of people since has started, seven years ago. When a patient only has few minutes to live and there was nothing that he could do for them, and the patient, asks "I'm going to die?", the doctor only have two options. The first, say the truth, or the second, say that they won't to die, (lie them). He in the past always lied because he was afraid, because the patients will die in fear, just grasping for those last moments of life. But in one accident, when the patient asks "I'm going to die?", he decides to say him the truth. The doctor saw in his eyes peace and acceptance. The doctor, discover that there are three patterns that he has observed in all of these cases (that he says the truth). The first pattern, was apologize, a need for forgiveness, because the guilt, is universal, it not depends of the religion or culture. The second pattern, it was remembrance, because the people need to be remembered, and need to feel that they would be living on. And finally, the third pattern, the dying need to know that their life had meaning, they need to know that their whole life, has meaning, and it isn't wasted.
Finally, the doctor saw that the littlest things, the littlest moments, this things, give you peace in the last breath of your life.
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