How to speak so that people want to listen, by Julian Treasure (Adrià Castellví)

Julian starts explaining whose are the main reasons because when you are speaking to somebody or any specific friend or partner and he can hear you but anybody are listening to you.

The main reasons are: gossips, judging, negativity, complaining, excuses, lying and dogmatism
And this is a big trouble, to end this he propose a easy solution with one word, HAIL, he give her own meaning to this word. 

H Honestly (if you aren't ,you did not come very far)
A Autenticity (just be yourself)
I Integrity (try with your own way) 
L Love (all with love are better)
So this is the first step to make our objective but the things doesn't end here.
The next step that you need to do is: 
Is so important the intention or your thoughts to say something that the way that you explain. In other words, your register,timber,prosody,pace,pitch and volume have the same important than HAIL.
Because when you adapt your voice, speed, calm, intensity, vocabulary, and your posture to  do it, change a lot the attention of the receptor/s.
And this helps very much to gain attention and your sound , gain harmony and with all of this when you speak your voice has gain powerfull speaking and this means more conciencius listening , and with last thing the creativity becomes receving and finally that transform the sound in the most and main instrument to understand the people ,and he ask: 
Who want this world ? with this essay understanding .

So in my opinion i answer : 
I want , and i really like this Ted talk, dosen't also for the english learning, furthermore for the idea of the best way to communicate to the others witch is really amazing.
PD: keep your own way and never let to be yourself 

Adrià Castellví